About a week ago, my dear soul sister Ashley at Ashley McElyea passed on the liebster blog award to this little corner of the online world. For those who've never heard of it, it is a virtual award passed from blogger to blogger (with under 200 followers) where the recipient tags the one that bestowed it, lists 11 facts about themselves, answers 11 questions, and nominates 11 more people to answer 11 new questions. While I don't usually do this kind of thing, Ashley asked some great questions and I figured it would be a nice change from the long stories I usually post. Don't forget to check out Ashley's writings & the blogs of those I pass this along to! Also, I'd love you to leave a comment listing a few facts about you so I can get to know you better.
11 facts about me:
I
got my first (and only) tattoo shortly after turning 16. No, my
parents had no idea and no, I do not regret it. It's the eagle
emblem from the Ramones logo and I love having the reminder of who I
was when I got it vs. who I am now.
I've
lived in 3 provinces & 1 state and I've gone to 6 high schools
and 2 universities. All my possessions are stored between the 3
provinces so it makes looking for a book rather difficult.
When
I was 12 my family and I went to a big cat sanctuary in Spokane and
I hand fed a tiger. He took the meat so gently that I was convinced
he must live in constant gratitude to those who saved him from the
drug lord's house.
A
few years ago I was pretty into zines and had two on the go; one was
my personal writing under a pen name, and the other a feminist
compilation zine. Two copies of each were purchased by Columbia
University for their library and I think it may have been the first
and only time I was proud of myself.
Hockey
makes me more emotional than almost anything else. When I go to a
Canucks home game I get tears in my eyes and a flutter through my
stomach. Partially because I played as a kid and it gave me my first
sense of identity and partially because the Stanley Cup run in 2011
was one of the best times of my life.
If
I could live in flannel shirts, white tank tops and baseball caps
everyday I would be a happy woman.
I
love horses more than almost anything. I've recently found a horse
to spend time with and ride in the area without charge and already I
feel as though my soul is more rested. Horses can speak to me like
no human can.
My
hair has been dark blonde, bleach blonde, regular blonde (natural
color), black and bleach dual toned, little mermaid red, bright
pink, light pink, dark orange and orange with yellow highlights and
the streaks I've had while blonde include purple, pink, red and a
red feather. I haven't used any dye at all for 2.5 years and while
it's nice it feels strange not doing something new every few months.
The
most consistent job I've had involves books. I worked at Chapters
for 1.5 years as my first job and loved it; I've also spent the past
two summers as a keyholder for the indie bookstore in town.
My
partner manages a private vineyard, and a few times a week I'll go
to work with him. I love working with the plants and the dirt, it
does the soul good as well as the body.
I
really don't like my big toenail.
What
is your ideal Sunday?
Waking
up next to my love and staying in bed huddled close while the sun
streams in. Slowly making my way to the kitchen to make a coffee in
the perkulator. Cooking a breakfast skillet in my cast iron pan while Johnny Cash plays and my love steals kisses. Going for a late morning
walk through the trees and mountains hand in hand before parting ways
so that I can nestle myself into a corner of a coffee shop to write. Reuniting in the evening along with friends at our place for beer, barbecue, bonfire and music.
If you
could pick any decade to live in, what would it be and why?
When I
was a teenager I always wished that I was a teenager in either the
70's in New York City so that I could have been there during the
Bowery punk scene or in the 90's in Olympia so that I could have been
at all the riot grrrl shows and movements.
Pick
up the book you are currently reading. The author is your lunch
date. What do you talk about?
I'm
just finishing Indian Horse by Richard Wagamese, my favourite author.
He's Ojibway and has lead a fascinating life – I would talk to him
about spirit, the earth, Native ceremonies and the sacredness that
surrounds us.
What
are your must-haves in your travel bag?
Headphones, laptop, a sweater or stuffed Simba to use as a pillow, mints, a journal, and
3 different books – a work of heavy fiction, light fiction and non
fiction so I can read something that suits whatever mood I'm in.
If you
could manipulate one element which one would it be and why?
I
would definitely want to manipulate water. I would manipulate all
water to be drinkable so that people would stop dying of water borne
illnesses, and I would run across oceans. Also, I really like tubing
and wakeboarding so I definitely would not mind getting to do that at
any time.
Pick
up your book again. Flip through it without looking and write the
first sentence you land on.
We
were a league of nomads, mad for the game, mad for the road, mad for
ice and snow, an Arctic wind on our faces and a frozen puck on the
blade of our sticks." - Richard Wagamese, Indian Horse
What
is your favorite home cooked meal?
I have so many that I cannot name just one, but last night my
boyfriend's mom made a type of chowder/stew called beans & peas &
new potatoes. It's a Canadian Maritime meal, and back there it's
considered a horror if you make it when the produce isn't in season
and if the vegetables don't come from your own garden or farm. She
told us stories of eating it on the rural farm she grew up on and I just loved how the dinner she prepared us had such a history for her.
If you
could ask pick one person to travel with the for the rest of your
life, who would it be and why?
My
love and partner Tyler. I can't imagine living life without him and I
love watching his face light up at the dawn of a new adventure; I
love hearing the passion and excitement in his voice when we're going
somewhere new. I would also love to travel with my little sister as she is the best sister one could ask for and I'd love to share new experiences with her.
Pick
up the object next to you. What is it and what are you using it for?
The
cinnamon candle pumpkin in my hand is warming the room with its fiery
light; it's calming me with its gentle aroma.
What
is your favorite season and why?
I love
blackberry season – the last two weeks of August and the first two
weeks of September. The days are still warm but the evenings are
crisp; the atmosphere is filled with the anticipation of new beginnings and honest conversation.
If
you could have a conversation with your 16 year old self, what advice
would you give her?
At
sixteen I was in a very dark spot and I was getting advice (both good
and bad) from an overwhelming amount of people left right and centre.
If I could be in the same room of my sixteen year old self I wouldn't
converse – I would simply hold her close, tuck the hair that she
hides behind out of her face, and rock her gently, telling her that
there will come a time when she will look forward to waking up in the
morning.
Nominated Blogs:
Due to the fact that a lot of the blogs I follow have large followings, I am unable to pass this on to 11 blogs (feel free to comment with your blog URL so I can check it out!) but I highly recommend you check out these lovely beings.
Juniper Anne: This lovely blog is run by my youngest sister Jennifer - she's the veteran blogger of the two of us and her photography is amazing! She often posts her daily fashions, and I am forever jealous of the way she can put an outfit together.
Life, In Creation: Amy writes about her life in Alaska, her favourite Etsy shops and her life as a small business owner. I love the flow in her writing and her photos are beautiful!
Morrowmoon: Chelsea's blog is quite new but I guarantee you will be blown away by her breathtaking photos. Her images and words have a depth that I only wish I could emulate.
My questions for the bloggers (and anyone else who would like to answer):
- What book has had the biggest impact on your life and why?
- If you could only listen to 3 music artists for the rest of your life, who would they be?
- What was your favourite playground equipment as a kid?
- East Coast or West Coast?
- What is your "spirit animal," and why?
- What is your biggest wish for the next year?
- Can you play any instruments?
- What was your favourite junk food as a kid & now?
- What is your go to routine after a bad day?
- What are your top 3 favourite quotes/song lyrics?
- Do you wish on shooting stars?
If you're reading this and want to answer these questions, consider yourself nominated - I would love to read more about your lives. Take care loves!
PS: I've recently become addicted to Instagram - come find me @northernrustication so I can creep admire your photos!